How to talk to customers without misleading responses
Swap hypothetical questions for a conversation about real episodes and find out how people solve a problem today.
Luiz Philipe (LP)
Updated 3 October 2026

“Would you use this app?” It seems like a simple question, but it usually produces a polite answer, not a reliable prediction. The person imagines a convenient future; Anyone who undertakes needs to understand what they really did.
Go back to the last occurrence
Start with “Tell me about the last time this happened.” Ask for the sequence: what triggered the need, what the person tried, where they sought help and how they decided on the next step. Questions about the recent past help to retrieve concrete details.
Use neutral invitations: “What happened next?”, “How did you choose this alternative?” and “What was most difficult?” Avoid completing the answer, suggesting reasons or praising an idea before listening.
Separate observation from interpretation
Write down two columns. Firstly, facts and exact phrases. In the second, your hypotheses about what they mean. “Opened three tabs to compare” is observation; “values variety” is interpretation. This separation prevents a conclusion from becoming data without realizing it.
Look for exceptions. If four people described the same difficulty and one did not, find out what changes: context, frequency, urgency, knowledge or available alternative. The difference may reveal a better-than-average segment.
Finish without selling the solution
Ask what you didn't ask and who else faces the situation. Only then, if it makes sense, show a concept and observe the reaction without defending it. Hesitation, confusion, and questions are useful information.
A good research conversation doesn’t deliver a “yes” to your idea. It improves your understanding of the work the person is trying to accomplish.
Frequently asked questions
Should I offer something in exchange for the conversation?
If you offer a thank you, make it clear that it is not dependent on positive responses. Avoid benefits that pressure the person to participate or praise.
Can I chat with friends and family?
They can help test whether the questions are understandable, but they tend to get to know you and your idea. Include people who face the problem without this connection.
How can I prevent myself from influencing the conversation?
Use a short script, ask one question at a time, tolerate silence, and don't correct the person. Review the recording or notes looking for questions that already contain a suggested answer.
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